docker: Proxmox deployment for bot/librarian/musician + code fixes

Containerises the three services (each intended for its own Proxmox VM)
and adds the code changes needed to run cleanly on Linux/Docker.

Code fixes:
- constants.py: CONJURER_DATA_DIR roots all writable bot state under one
  mounted volume (per-variable overrides still win; native Pi unaffected)
- conjurer_librarian/search_bot.py + scrape_bot.py: the hardcoded Windows
  DOI database path (C:\Database\chunks\) is now CONJURER_LIBRARIAN_DB_PATH,
  with CONJURER_LIBRARIAN_MAXTHREADS / _CHUNK also env-overridable

Docker:
- docker/Dockerfile.{bot,librarian,musician} + compose.{bot,librarian,musician}.yaml
- docker/env/*.env.example (force-added; real *.env stays gitignored)
- docker/entrypoint.bot.sh seeds default JSON state into /data only when
  absent, so preserved history is never overwritten
- .dockerignore
- docs/deployment/DOCKER_PROXMOX.md: step-by-step runbook incl. preserving
  the existing command/conversation history and cross-VM auth

The bot image uses the vendored yt_dlp/spotify_dl forks (they win on
sys.path over the pip packages), dropping the old sed patching.

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

.dockerignore

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+# Keep build contexts lean. Component dirs (conjurer_librarian, conjurer_musician)
+# are intentionally NOT ignored — their images copy them from this same context.
+.git
+.github
+.trunk
+.vscode
+**/__pycache__/
+*.pyc
+*.pyo
+*.log
+*.mp3
+docs/
+tests/
+conftest.py
+pytest.ini
+docker/env/*.env
+secrets/